Dudes are constantly approaching ladies the wrong way. Many males are either too eager, have no self-confidence or are just expecting too much. It’s really not that challenging, but it does involve some skill, which is almost a lost art.

Many women would say that one of the biggest turn offs is when a man is drunk and tries to have an interaction with them. On the other hand, most males would argue that they are more relaxed when they have a few cold ones, but to a female it shows that you need a drink just build up your confidence and it is viewed as being weak. In a lady’s eyes, a male with no confidence is not attractive. Another way to lower your perceived quality in her mind is to do her a favor when she actually does nothing at all to deserve it. For example, why would you buy a drink for no reason? This only sends “simp” vibes. Now she is feeling, what else can I get out of this loser without having to doing a thing. Even if you are trying to spend your cash and impress girls, all it does is backfire and eventually puts the girl above you by lowering yourself. NOT COOL.

We all flirt to feel each other out, the girls to the guys and fellas to women, you are trying to see if she likes you, plus this can be mentally exciting for most chicks. Unfortunately most males do not initiate flirting, when you do not date or even initiate it then males, you slowly get sucked into the awful “friend zone”. It only takes a chick a few instances to decide if you are just going to be a friend. Fellas, I’m going to be brutally honest. If you are not going to mingle with women, then you might as well tuck your tale between your legs and kick rocks. Mingling when done correctly, can get you a lot further than buying a cold one.

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