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For some guys picking up women is a total mystery. If you are one of these guys who gets nervous or just can never seem to wind up with the girl you’re interested in at the end of the night then listen up. This method has to be one of the most clever and powerful methods of picking up women ever invented and if it’s not in your arsenal of pickup tactics you need to try it out sometime.

How many times have you seen a woman that you want to talk with but she is with a bunch of her friends? As difficult as it can be for some guys to approach just a single woman the thought of approaching a group of girls that are together can cause most guys to simply walk away and live to fight another day. But this should no longer be an issue if you do find the woman of your dreams with a bunch of her friends.

Here is the plan. Walk up to the group and introduce yourself. Engage them all in a little bit of conversation. What techniques you use to do this is not important. Asking them if they’re having a good time or who the designated driver is works as well as anything. Make sure that you make eye contact with all of the women and pick one of the girls as your pseudo-target. Try to remember some distinguishing characteristic such as hair color or what kind of dress she is wearing and make her your second choice out of the group. This is very important and you’ll see why.

Now ask the woman that is your target or the woman that you are really hoping to pickup if you can talk to her in private for just a minute. Ask her friends if it is ok if you steal her away for just a minute and that you promise to bring her back unscathed. Once you cut the woman of your dreams away from her friends ask her about the second girl that you picked out of the group. Ask her if she is single and what she can tell you about your second choice.

At first the woman of your dreams is going to think that you are pulling her aside to ask for her number or ask her out on a date with some sort of slick pickup line. When you ask her about her friend you will have her off balance and you will almost be able to see her ego deflate before your very eyes. Try to keep the conversation going and explain that you have the best of intentions and that you want to get to know her friend but you are terrible at starting conversations and that you need her help. Wrap up your conversation by exchanging cell numbers or email addresses with the woman of your dreams and ask her to keep in touch because you definitely need her help because her friend is just so beautiful.

There are many reasons why this technique works so well but the biggest reason is because every woman wants to think that they are the most beautiful woman in their group. By giving your dream girl’s ego a boost at first and then dropping her value by asking about her friend you will cause her to compete with her friend. You might be surprised by the reaction that you get over the long run when you use this technique and don’t be surprised if you get a call or text message from your dream girl within 24 hours if not sooner.

While this bait and switch method is very effective in creating attraction with very beautiful women it is what you do after you have gotten her contact information that is most important. Without some real flirting skills your opportunity might not be fully realized. If you really want to know how to follow up and flirt with women you need to learn these skills.

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Many guys think that if they want to flirt with women they have to come off like a jerk. This is a common tactic that is preached by some flirting and seduction gurus and one that can potentially get you in a lot of trouble if not kill your chances with a woman if you’re not careful.

While it may be true that many women like the “bad boys” and do wind up with jerks, the truth is that they don’t go out looking for jerks. Women aren’t really attracted to guys that are completely disrespectful of them or treat them poorly in the beginning of a relationship. It is usually later on when a guy turns out to be a jerk when a woman realizes that she is stuck with a bad boy.

Women are attracted to guys that make them feel a certain way and this should be your goal. You are trying to elicit positive emotions from the woman that you are trying to flirt with and make her equate pleasure with you. You bring her pleasure and make her feel good and she will feel attracted to you. Pretty simple, right?

So how do you do this without coming off like a complete loser at the same time? How do you make her feel good and make her body tingle every time you are near without appearing to be just a “yes-man” in her eyes there to simply feed her ego?

It can be a delicate balancing act and it is necessary to temper your complement with a bit of a disclaimer. Take this for instance. This is one that is sure to at least get you the opportunity to talk with the woman that you are trying to flirt with. Tell her that she has to be the most beautiful woman in the room, office, bar or club. After she thank you continue with your flirting and tell her that it was actually very intimidating to walk up to her and talk to her because most gorgeous women are kind of stuck up but that you felt she was worth the gamble.

As she begins to blush and laugh look around the room and point out the competition. Let her know that there are many other beautiful women around but in your mind she has a prettier face or a nicer smile or that there is just something about her that is very special. Try to avoid words like “hot” or “sexy” or any direct reference to her body. She wants to feel beautiful and avoid treating her like a piece of meat.

This tactic is very effective in almost any situation and it will give you both the opportunity and confidence to continue flirting with just about any woman you desire. Even if she is with a group of friends you can cut her away from the herd and point out that she does have some very attractive friends but that there is just something ethereal and simply spectacular about her that you can’t quite put your finger on.

Feel free to knock some of the other girls in the place too. Pointing out that another girl is very attractive but that she looks angry or unapproachable or that another woman looks like she has an attitude can prove that you are perceptive as well as that you are looking at other women… but she has caught your eye enough for you to take the gamble and approach her.

Use these methods to complement a girl and she will stick around to continue feeling the positive feelings that you are giving her. While this is only the tip of the iceberg as far as flirting with women it will get you off on the right foot with any woman without you having to act like a jerk.

Click Here to get your free book full of powerful insider tips on picking up women. See how the real players get the really hot girls and how you can go from loser to a man in demand. Get your copy today!

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